Entertaining or having people over is not something that naturally comes to me. I didn't come from a family of entertainers. I could count the number of times that my parents had people over on one hand. But like a ham that craves attention and loves people, I have figured out that having people over and tempting or bribing them with food makes you popular ;)
It goes without saying that I've stumbled in my hostess duties along the way. There are instances where I've almost killed people with kindness. Several years ago we had Mr NQN's and my family over for his birthday cake. I doled out big slices of a richer than rich chocolate chestnut cake and added not one but two scoops of double chocolate ice cream on the side. I could tell everyone was trying to be polite by eating as much as possible and by the time I had finished serving everyone and sat down to eat my own dessert I realised that even I could barely finish half a slice.
I always try and tone down how much I serve people but I think the situation is hopeless. I'm a feeder and a stressful one at that but I'm working on both things. For the stress, one thing that I have learned along the way to hosting people is to use shortcuts where possible. I invited Belinda and her girls Mia and Ruby over for spaghetti and pizza one day and whilst I made the spaghetti from scratch, I availed myself of the pizza using a pre made base and a pre topped pizza from the new Woolworths Gold selection and bought dessert in.
I topped the plain pizza bases with torn pieces of burrata, basil leaves and marinated olives but of course you could customise it to your favourite pizza toppings. I'm thinking some mozzarella and some of the Woolworths Gold Truffle Salami next time! Just dealing with the main pasta dish meant that I was much more relaxed than I have been in the past. Of course my habit of over feeding was there (one problem at a time! :P) but not having to make every single thing yourself helped to save what little sanity I have left. After all guess which favourite holiday is coming up? ;)
So tell me Dear Reader, when you have people over, do you make everything from scratch or do you buy in some courses? If so, which ones do you buy and which ones do you make? Do you make pizza from scratch or do you buy the bases and top them yourself?
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